grease or butter a sheet pan, this is a pan that is 13X18
preheat the oven to 350˚
melt the 2 sticks of butter
stir in the 2 cups canned pumpkin and the cinnamon, fresh nutmeg and the pinch of cardamom if using
add the boiling water, stir, set aside to cool
in a separate bowl mix the flour, sugar, and salt give it a little mix
in a large measuring cup mix the eggs, the buttermilk, and the baking soda
add the pumpkin mix to the flour mixture and lightly stir together
then add the buttermilk mixture and stir until combined
pour in prepared pan and bake in a 350˚ oven for 20-22 minutes
the cake should spring back when poked if it doesn't, bake it for 1-2 minutes longer
once it's done let it cool
when the cake is cool make the icing by mixing the butter and cream cheese in a stand mixer with the whisk attachment, be sure to scrape down the sides a few times
slowly add the powdered sugar
then the cinnamon, start with 1 teaspoon keep adding until you like the flavor, I used 2 teaspoons
drizzle in milk a teaspoon at a time to get it to spreading consistency
spread on the cooled cake
add sprinkles if you like
store covered and put in the fridge if you need to keep it longer than a couple of hours