preheat oven to 350˚
stir the flour, sugar, and salt together, set aside
melt butter over medium heat, whisk in boiling water and cocoa, bring to a quick boil, just 30 seconds or so
pour the butter mixture over the flour, stir to combine, set aside to cool a little
meanwhile measure the milk out, add the vinegar, let it sour
lightly beat the eggs
mix the eggs, sour milk, vanilla, and baking soda together
pour into the flour butter mix, stir to combine
pour in an ungreased 18X13 pan
bake 20 minutes
while the cake is baking make the icing so you can pour it on the cake while it's still hot